If you are in the hospital and you call for a chaplain, she heals you in a way that the doctors and nurses can’t.
They bring pills and IV medication. She brings a bucket. The bucket is herself. She empties out herself and you pour your problems in.
She listens to the deeper problems. She isn’t hearing for physical symptoms. She is listening for deeper down. What is the source of the pain? What is the root of it all? What are you afraid of?
People tend to be motivated out of fear or love. A fear-based life results in one full of pain and anxiety. Relieve the reasons for the fear and you relieve the pain and anxiety.
Sometimes you can’t take away the problem. Sometimes the situation can’t be changed. Then the only thing to do is change your opinion of it. The more you fight against it, the more pain you will feel. Stop. Relax into it. Accept it. It will hurt less.
Life is a lot like giving birth to ourselves over and over. The more we resist it, the harder it will be.
Accept. Relax. Explore it. Don’t fight it. Don’t define it. It isn’t good or bad.
It just is.