I read once about how the Japanese grow such amazing apples. They look at the small apples when they are just beginning to grow and they pull off the ones that they don’t need. All the ones that look a little scraggly or misshapen they pull off. Because of this, the other fruit gets the energy that was going to them. So instead of having 10 good apples and 10 ok apples, they get 10 amazing apples. Quality over quantity.
I think it would be a good idea for us to apply that concept to all of our activities. In this, I’m specifically thinking about hobbies, or things we do for fun that we would like to get better at.
Rather than getting scattered trying to do too many things, select the ones that look the most promising. Pick those that look fruitful, if you will.
What do you enjoy doing most? What do you think you would like to spend more time on and get better at?
We have only so much time in our days and in our lives. It is wiser to pare down and do two things amazingly well than 10 things only ok.
I’ve read that the difference between an average artist and an amazing one is practice. The main difference is time – specifically 10,000 hours of time – spent honing your craft. This applies to music, to writing, drawing. It is the same for a seamstress or a surgeon. Want to get better at it? Do it. A lot. Make a regular habit of it.
Some natural aptitude is helpful, but the real difference is work.
Nobody starts off an expert. Of course your first attempts look wonky. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else – they aren’t you. What is important is that you hone your craft, your skill.
There is a Chinese saying that the best time to plant a tree was 100 years ago. The second best time is today.