The asylum was a home to ghosts now. But then again, it
always had been. Only back then it was the other kind. Back then the ghosts
were bodies without a spirit, instead of the other way around. Or sometimes it
was a body with more than one, or the wrong one – one that hadn’t come with the
original owner.
People didn’t understand that bodies were a bit like houses.
Sometimes they were unoccupied. Sometimes there was a new tenant. And sometimes
there were squatters – people who snuck in and never left.
But the asylum’s founders never saw it that way. They saw it
as a character flaw that people were less than stable. They were running a
warehouse, not a hospital. It was more like a prison than a sanatorium. Nobody
got sane there. In many cases they went even further down that rabbit hole.
Sometimes so far they never came back.
That all changed when the new Program started. It was small
at first – privately funded by a few far-sighted citizens and understanding
congregations. It never wanted to take government money. Government money meant
government meddling, and that meant nothing ever got done.
The Program’s motto was “Get with the Program” and they didn’t
advertise or recruit. People found them through word-of-mouth. People who had
gotten their lives back told friends they thought were ready for it. It was
private, but not secret. But it was free to the people who needed it. Healing
shouldn’t cost money. That cheapens it. But there was a cost. The clients
(never patients) had to clean and cook. They were supervised and assisted but
they had to do the work. Idle hands meant idle spirits, and the goal of the
Program was to re-integrate body and mind. They did this by making the clients
participate in their own recovery. They truly healed themselves – and more
importantly they were taught how to keep that momentum going once they left.
They weren’t out on their own after the Program. There were
weekly meetings to attend as graduates, to remind themselves of how far they
had come and the path that led to life. All too often people forgot how they
got well and so got sick again, entropy being what it is at all.
The natural way of life leads to decay. The founders of the
Program knew that. They taught their clients a series of steps to do daily
maintenance on their souls and bodies, just like with a car or house. This was
their secret. It wasn’t pills or talk therapy that did the trick, but they were
included too. It was more like occupational therapy than psychotherapy, with
the occupation being living your life.
For some people, just being alive was work, and hard work at
that. The daily tasks of self-care didn’t come easy to them, or they never
learned them. So they struggled with tasks that everyone else did
unconsciously. Or they did them for a little while – a week, or a month, or
even a year – and then forgot, or assumed their stability was normal, forgetting
the incredible framework they had to build all the time in order to prop
themselves up and avoid collapse.
They were taught that sanity isn’t like taking penicillin.
You don’t follow this prescription for eleven days and then stop. It requires
daily work to keep away the decay in body and mind, the decay that leads to
death. Maybe it isn’t an actual death, but a sort of living death, a half life.
Maybe it is a zombie kind of life, one where you go through the motions, never
really here.
The goal of the Program was life, full stop. A true
integration into reality, an active participation. It included classes in
mindfulness, gratitude, and forgiveness. It taught cooking and how to navigate
grocery stores. It taught how to budget money, time and energy. It taught how
to express feelings verbally and through art. It taught self-sufficiency and
interdependence. And it did it all out of love.
Eventually, the building closed, because this new way of living became part of the community’s way of life. Everyone followed the Program. It became normal to take care of bodies and souls together, to not see them as separate, or as opposed to each other. It became normal to be healthy in body, mind, and spirit. They kept the old building as a reminder of how far they had come, and as a warning to not go back.
(Written mid-July 2018, updated February 2, 2019)
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